F*ck clarity! You have what you need now to change your life!

Coming in hot with a little newsflash: You don’t need to be clear to take the first step toward making a career/life change! 

A client had a mega breakthrough yesterday. She was so hung up feeling like she didn’t have all the details of what she wanted in her life and career, she created a story that she had lack of clarity. That this was what was keeping her from moving forward (for YEARS until she found me!) 

Here’s what I told her, because maybe you need to hear it too. 

When we know we need to make a change, be it a career shift, a new job, a new country, new relationship, new investment, new apartment, new friends, new hobby, all we need to know is what we know right now!

The universe doesn’t need you (or want you) to tell it the job title, what your boss will be like, the exact salary, the exact town, the date, time, how many sisters he will have and how they’ll braid your hair on Christmas morning. 

The universe wants you to have clarity and a genuine connection to your what you want.
 

e.g. I want to do work that has me out in the world connecting to people using my background in travel and public relations.

e.g. I want to live somewhere with temperate weather, where the cost of living fits within my budget of $X and I can be at the beach in under 1 hour.

e.g. I want to have friends who energize me, have similar interests in hiking, yoga and giving back to the community.

The above are examples of all you need! I would almost guarantee that I could help every single one of you come up with this level of clarity to make the change. 

Your next step? Is to EXPLORE. Get out in the world and talk to people doing the work/things in alignment with the clarity you have.

e.g. Ask your friend if she she has that friend who works in travel. DM that girl you met at your cousin's bday last year who works at a PR firm and gets to go to Paris every year. 

e.g. Make a list of five places that fit the criteria. Join a Facebook group for women living in that place. Get in the energy. Can you take a trip there? 

e.g. Can you sign up for a yoga class this weekend and challenge yourself to introduce yourself to one person? Can you go to the free meditation in the park and ask someone if they want to get coffee after?

(These are real live examples of my clients BTW. We don't mess around.)

And guess what? You’ll get even more clarity with each action. Each conversation. Each step. Rinse and repeat.

You can do this! There is NO excuse to not LOVE YOUR LIFE. I really believe that. 


Here is your "self work" (aka homework)

1. Pick ONE area of your life you want to change. 
2. Make a list of what you know you want. Pro tip: if you can only think about what's not work, make a list of that and then write the exact opposite. Boom. 
3. Choose ONE step to EXPLORE using the examples above. 
4. DM me or reply to this email and let me know what you learned. Then let's come up with your next step! 
 

Please stop living in the story that you can’t start because you don’t have every single detail ironed out and start focusing on what you do have clarity on.
 

If you are reading this and thinking "damn, I need you and this can-do energy in my life," I'm taking free coaching chemistry calls this week and next to fill the remaining spot to work with me 1:1 in my three month coaching program TrueYou! 


In 45 minutes, you'll get to taste what my coaching style is like and come away with clarity and action steps forward. 
 

Just reply to this email or click here to book!